Showing posts with label Navy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Navy. Show all posts

Friday, November 11, 2011

United We Stand


I'm proud to be an American.

Just like Lee Greenwood.

I believe in life.

Liberty.

And the pursuit of happiness.

All three.

I love our country.

I relish our freedom.

And I support our President.

What a concept.

It doesn't matter who he is.

Or someday, who she is.

I think that many of us take for granted what we have here.

I know I do.

Today is Veterans Day.

A day to think about sacrifice.

For many, that sacrifice is the bank or post office being closed.

For others, the sacrifice is a lot more significant.

This is a day to honor the brave men and women who have fought for this country.

To celebrate the life.

And in many cases, the death.

Of the people who were willing to give up everything for the good of this land.

I wasn't one of those people.

I never enlisted.

Never really considered it.

I don't think that makes me wrong.

I don't think that makes me right.

But it was not for me.

My dad didn't really have a choice.

He was part of the Navy during WWII.

Stationed in Japan.

We never really talked much about it.

I wish we would've.

When I was really young, I do remember asking him what rank he was.

He told me Admiral.

I never questioned him.

Years later, I finally figured out that he was lying to me.

He did tell me that he wanted to be a fighter pilot.

But his eyesight stopped that from happening.

When he died a few years ago, I went rummaging through his old boxes.

And I found this letter.

A letter he wrote to his mom.

From Japan.

During the war.

It didn't really say much.

Other than hi.

How are you?

And say hello to Uncle Morris.

But in 1940 something, I'm sure that letter was worth a million bucks.

Thankfully these days, there are much better ways to communicate.

Like Skype.

This morning at my kids' school there was a Veterans Day assembly.

And at that assembly, the principal of the school brought his son.

From Afghanistan.

On Skype.

The picture wasn't great.

The sound wasn't great.

But the fact that there was a picture.

And sound.

At all.

Is truly unbelievable.

There must've been 500 people at this assembly.

Maybe more.

And the school did a very nice job of paying tribute.

It started with the old standards.

The presenting of the colors.

The pledge of allegiance.

The national anthem.

Then the heavy stuff kicked in.

One of the third graders was called to the front of the room.

She had prepared a speech.

A two-page speech.

To talk about what it was like for her dad to be gone.

For four months.

In Iraq.

She admitted that when she first heard he was going to Iraq.

She had no idea where that was.

She then told us how much she missed him while he was gone.

Missed reading with him.

And eating with him.

And talking with him.

And seeing him.

By this point, the assembly was being sponsored by Kleenex.

When she finished, her father was called to the stage.

In his uniform.

Then the mom.

Then her brother.

Feel free to call me soft.

A sap.

Whatever you want.

But I was in tears.

Just like the rest of the gymnasium.

The program ran almost 90 minutes.

Twice as long as expected.

But nobody was complaining.

Each class sang the theme song from a different branch of the military.

And of course there were speakers.

One gentleman – a Captain in the Marine Corps – prepared a slide show.

During that slide show he played an audio clip.

An audio clip from June of 1972.

The announcement was an official sounding voice saying that an American plane had been shot down over Vietnam.

And that there was no sign of the two on board.

He then passed along his condolences to the families of the pilots.

Thankfully there was one problem with that announcement.

And that problem was that one of the pilots was still alive.

Captured, but alive.

In fact, that pilot was standing right in front of us.

Speaking at our assembly.

He spoke about spending 290 days at the “Hanoi Hilton”.

Otherwise known as Hoa Lo Prison.

That's where many of the POWs spent time.

Including John McCain.

And another man he showed us a picture of.

A man who spent 3113 days at this Horrible Hilton.

He spoke of the conditions.

And the treatment.

And the torture.

I'm not really sure how much the students really understood.

Which might be a good thing.

But the fact that he made it through to the other side is what we were there to celebrate.

Unfortunately the same can't be said for his flying mate.

Still considered Missing in Action.

39 years later.

At the end of his speech, the Captain opened it up for questions.

From the far right a girl raised her hand.

And when she was called on she said:

Did you know my daddy was born in 1973?”

The room laughed.

Cute.

I suppose.

But clearly these kids didn't get it.

Maybe that's not such a good thing.




Saturday, September 10, 2011

My Irish Eyes Not Smiling


I’m going to test the theory that writing this blog makes me feel better.
It has definitely worked in the past.
Many times.
But right about now, I’m ready to cry.
I wish it had something to do with something important.
But it doesn’t.
Well, it’s important to me.
But I don’t believe Notre Dame Football has anything to do with world peace.
Or world hunger.
Or anything in this world that really matters.
But to me, Notre Dame football feels like life and death.
And right now I am dead.
Saturday night we... they... suffered THE most heartbreaking loss.
Well, THE most heartbreaking loss.
Since last week.
I’m sure I’ll get over this.
Like I got over last week.
I’ll get over this.
Like I’ve gotten over the 26 times we’ve lost since 2007.
I’ll get over this.
Just in time to let the Oakland Raiders break the rest of my heart on Monday.
I guess that’s what being a true fan is all about.
Unfortunately there’s been way more agonies of defeat.
Than thrills of victory.
The most recent example was Saturday night against Michigan.

My son and I tapped our "Play Like A Champion" sign.

Headed down to the basement.

And invested nearly four hours of our life watching the Irish lose another game.
This time in the final two seconds.
I have spent the last 45 minutes reminding myself.
“It doesn’t really matter”.
And...
“It’s only a game”.
And it really doesn’t take much to see that both of those statements are very true.
Especially on the eve of the anniversary of the worst day this country has ever seen.
But the sickening feeling in my stomach won’t listen.
I’ll spare you the details of the game.
But just summarize.
We were leading.
We were leading.
We were leading.
They took the lead with a minute left.
We took the lead with 30 seconds left.
They won with two seconds left.
Game over.
I realize there a billion Chinese that have never heard of the Irish.
And most of them have never heard of Notre Dame either.
But I’m not Chinese.
I’m Jewish.
And Jews love Catholics.
Well this Jew loves those Catholics.
The ones that wear green and gold every Saturday in the fall.
I’ve been an Irish fan since I was nine.
I’ve told the story before.
But since this is my blog, I’ll tell it again.
Ok, I’ll make it quick.
When I was nine, there were two things on TV on Sunday mornings.
Church shows.
And Notre Dame replay.
Guess which one I picked.
Since 1976 I’ve been living and dying with the Golden Domers.
There was quite a bit of living in the late 70’s.
And most of the 80’s.
But the last 15 years have sucked out loud.
Sure we’ve had some decent records.
And some big wins.
And some good players.
But dammit we are Catholic.
And Catholics are supposed to win all the time!
Doesn’t it say that somewhere in First Corinthians?
Unfortunately no matter how bad the heartbreak is.
And continues to be.
You can bet your bible that I’ll be sitting in front of the tube next Saturday.
When Michigan State rips out what’s left of my insides.
You would think by now I would know how to deal with this.
But I don’t.
Just say the name Pete Bercich.
And I will start crying.
Guaranteed.
And that was 18 years ago.
Long miserable story short.
November 20, 1993.
Notre Dame ranked #1 in the country.
On its way to a(nother) National Championship.
Facing the “other” Catholics.
From Boston College.
One minute left.
Bercich lets a game-ending interception go through his hands.
Like those hands were made of butter.
Or stone.

Stone butter.

Whatever.
Yada yada yada.
We lost that game.
On the final play.
And lost our chance at a title.
Since that day, Notre Dame has not been the same.
Winning just 115 of the next 200 games.
Now that would be great record for a school like Tulsa.
Or Pittsburgh.  Or Syracuse.  Or North Carolina.
Or South Florida.  Or Connecticut.
Or Navy.  Or Air Force.
All schools who have defeated the once great Notre Dame in the last five years.
Hell, I think we’ve lost to every branch of the Armed Forces except the Coast Guard.
Well I’m 706 words in.
And I still don’t feel better.
There goes that theory.


Hey, I could've been a Cubs fan.
Go Irish!