Showing posts with label Veterans Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Veterans Day. Show all posts

Friday, November 11, 2011

United We Stand


I'm proud to be an American.

Just like Lee Greenwood.

I believe in life.

Liberty.

And the pursuit of happiness.

All three.

I love our country.

I relish our freedom.

And I support our President.

What a concept.

It doesn't matter who he is.

Or someday, who she is.

I think that many of us take for granted what we have here.

I know I do.

Today is Veterans Day.

A day to think about sacrifice.

For many, that sacrifice is the bank or post office being closed.

For others, the sacrifice is a lot more significant.

This is a day to honor the brave men and women who have fought for this country.

To celebrate the life.

And in many cases, the death.

Of the people who were willing to give up everything for the good of this land.

I wasn't one of those people.

I never enlisted.

Never really considered it.

I don't think that makes me wrong.

I don't think that makes me right.

But it was not for me.

My dad didn't really have a choice.

He was part of the Navy during WWII.

Stationed in Japan.

We never really talked much about it.

I wish we would've.

When I was really young, I do remember asking him what rank he was.

He told me Admiral.

I never questioned him.

Years later, I finally figured out that he was lying to me.

He did tell me that he wanted to be a fighter pilot.

But his eyesight stopped that from happening.

When he died a few years ago, I went rummaging through his old boxes.

And I found this letter.

A letter he wrote to his mom.

From Japan.

During the war.

It didn't really say much.

Other than hi.

How are you?

And say hello to Uncle Morris.

But in 1940 something, I'm sure that letter was worth a million bucks.

Thankfully these days, there are much better ways to communicate.

Like Skype.

This morning at my kids' school there was a Veterans Day assembly.

And at that assembly, the principal of the school brought his son.

From Afghanistan.

On Skype.

The picture wasn't great.

The sound wasn't great.

But the fact that there was a picture.

And sound.

At all.

Is truly unbelievable.

There must've been 500 people at this assembly.

Maybe more.

And the school did a very nice job of paying tribute.

It started with the old standards.

The presenting of the colors.

The pledge of allegiance.

The national anthem.

Then the heavy stuff kicked in.

One of the third graders was called to the front of the room.

She had prepared a speech.

A two-page speech.

To talk about what it was like for her dad to be gone.

For four months.

In Iraq.

She admitted that when she first heard he was going to Iraq.

She had no idea where that was.

She then told us how much she missed him while he was gone.

Missed reading with him.

And eating with him.

And talking with him.

And seeing him.

By this point, the assembly was being sponsored by Kleenex.

When she finished, her father was called to the stage.

In his uniform.

Then the mom.

Then her brother.

Feel free to call me soft.

A sap.

Whatever you want.

But I was in tears.

Just like the rest of the gymnasium.

The program ran almost 90 minutes.

Twice as long as expected.

But nobody was complaining.

Each class sang the theme song from a different branch of the military.

And of course there were speakers.

One gentleman – a Captain in the Marine Corps – prepared a slide show.

During that slide show he played an audio clip.

An audio clip from June of 1972.

The announcement was an official sounding voice saying that an American plane had been shot down over Vietnam.

And that there was no sign of the two on board.

He then passed along his condolences to the families of the pilots.

Thankfully there was one problem with that announcement.

And that problem was that one of the pilots was still alive.

Captured, but alive.

In fact, that pilot was standing right in front of us.

Speaking at our assembly.

He spoke about spending 290 days at the “Hanoi Hilton”.

Otherwise known as Hoa Lo Prison.

That's where many of the POWs spent time.

Including John McCain.

And another man he showed us a picture of.

A man who spent 3113 days at this Horrible Hilton.

He spoke of the conditions.

And the treatment.

And the torture.

I'm not really sure how much the students really understood.

Which might be a good thing.

But the fact that he made it through to the other side is what we were there to celebrate.

Unfortunately the same can't be said for his flying mate.

Still considered Missing in Action.

39 years later.

At the end of his speech, the Captain opened it up for questions.

From the far right a girl raised her hand.

And when she was called on she said:

“Did you know my daddy was born in 1973?”

The room laughed.

Cute.

I suppose.

But clearly these kids didn't get it.

Maybe that's not such a good thing.




Thursday, November 11, 2010

Reign on the Parade

My Italian grandfather had a saying...
America!
When you enjoyed the true qualities of this country.
America!
Spending the afternoon at the park with your kids.
America!
A great meal at a great restaurant.
America!
500 Channels on DirecTV.
Ameri...
Actually, he wasn’t around for DirecTV, but I’m sure he would’ve loved it.
My grandfather was a shoe repairman.   
His business kept him and my grandmother afloat for many years.
Well that and the sports gambling book he was running in the back of the store.
America!
It’s been a while since my grandfather passed.
In fact, I was still quite young when it happened so all I can really remember at this point are the hugs.
But to this day when something good happens, I still mutter his signature phrase under my breath.
As the song says, “This is My Country”... and I wouldn’t want it any other way.
I’ve been incredibly fortunate to travel the world and I truly LOVE what I’ve seen.
Quebec City is magnifique.   
Rome is fantastico.  
Cabo.  Wabo.
But like Lee Greenwood, I’m proud to be an American.
As you may have gathered from my last blog, my life is in a blender right now.
On full speed.
But we are not going there.
For now.
Where we are going is 5th Avenue.
The home of today’s Veterans Day Parade.
Let me tell you New Yorkers LOVE their parades.
If you don’t believe me, maybe you will believe this...
Jan  Three Kings Parade
Feb  Lunar New Year Parade
Mar  St. Patrick’s Day Parade
Apr  Sikh Cultural Society Parade
May  Greater NY Good Neighbor Parade
Jun  Children’s Evangelical Parade
Jul  Captive Nations Parade
Aug  Pakistan Independence Day Parade
Sep  West Indian American Day Carnival Parade
Oct  Korean Harvest Day Parade
Nov  Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade
Dec  ... .... ...
Wow, no parades in December. 
Since I’ve been here, one week it was the Mexican Day Parade.... the next week it was the Muslim Day Parade... and the Puerto Rican Day Parade is epic.   
Just ask Kramer.
I asked an NYPD officer when the half-Italian, half-Jewish Parade was so I could walk in it.
He told me they could make that happen.
I’m sure they can.
The parade life is so exciting here, I almost rooted for the Yankees to win the World Series again.
Almost.
Taking nothing away from any of the other parades, there was something that felt extra special to me about today’s event.
I didn’t serve in the military and I only know a few people who did.
Or do.
But I have nothing but complete 100% respect for the brave people who have made that commitment.
And to their families, who wait every day for the phone to ring or not ring, I can’t imagine.
Seeing the pride in today’s parade was incredible.
Men and women, who wore the uniform 50 years ago, still believing in what they believed in 50 years ago.
I’ve been to the Rose Parade, several times, and let me tell you Mr. Quayle, this was no Rose Parade.
No giant floats.  No flowers.   No fuzzy animals.

This parade was about people.
Real people.
I was standing on the corner of 34th and 5th when I heard a song in the distance.
It was coming from the vehicle sponsored by the Vietnam Veterans of America.
Manhattan Chapter 126.
The man was belting out, “God Shed His Grace on Thee”, like he was at Carnegie Hall.
Like his body had been invaded by Paul Anka.
It didn’t matter to him that only a couple of hundred people could hear his high note.
This was his high point.
And when he finished, with his heart pounding and his breath shortened, he huffed and puffed... “Thank You.”
“Thank You New York.”
I walked about ten blocks down the parade route and pretty much everywhere I went there were people watching.
And smiling.
I saw more waves than the Atlantic Ocean.
And I saw kids.  A lot of them.
It was very cool.
Cool to see the look in the kids’ eyes as they looked at heroes.

Real heroes.
Remember being young and seeing someone in uniform, thinking they were special.
Well, they are special.
Sure, old age has made me and you and most of us somewhat cynical.
Whether you believe in war or military or defense or whatever word you want to use, that’s for another blog.
Not mine.
But I saw so much pride out there today.
And that was very cool.
America!